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Laziness

Laziness is like a seed. You allow it to settle and grow, and soon it will overtake you like a weed.  It’s best to not allow and amount of laziness to settle.  Rest is good. Laziness never is good. 

Show Up, Be Thorough

Show up, be thorough.  Repeat.  You’ll be successful at anything you do following this simple formula. 

Building

What am I building and how does it help others? Building something as a vanity project adds little value.  Building something that helps others adds infinite value. 

Bring Together

It's easy to divide. It takes a special person who can bring things and people together. The bridge divides. Unite. Those are special skills.

Doing over Saying

Some are good at talking. And words matter a lot. Words can inspire or they can destroy.  But it's those who actually DO who make changes in the world.  Words and communication are absolutely necessary, but the ones who change the world are the ones who actually DO.

Trust

If trust is foundational currency, how much do you have banked?  Trust can’t be stolen or forged. It’s carefully made over time and actions. Loss of trust can happen almost instantaneously.  Measuring our every action and measuring again can prevent the loss of trust. 

Jumping In

Where I swam today felt cold.  I started getting in the water slowly but it was too cold.   Instead, I swung off the dock and splashed in. It was cold much longer after that.  Lesson learned :)

Make The Most

Every day has something in it for us. Whether good or bad happens, the day has something to take in.  Every day, taking in what we can makes us better people. Learn from the good. Show up in the bad. Keep moving forward and glean everything possible from each day. 

Bottle Up

Things to bottle up... Your complaints. Gossip. Negativity. Things not to bottle up... Truth. Needing help. Positivity.

Happiness

The happiest people have found happiness in the small things. If happiness is dependent on grand things, being happy is a difficult target.  If it’s dependent on the little things, it will be easy to find. 

Do or Say

Doing is better than saying. Let your actions speak for you more so than your actual words. 

Learning and Using It

Learning is great. Knowledge is power. The power is dependent on action.  Knowing isn’t enough. Action is needed.  Learn and then do. 

Growing

If you’re not stretching, you’re not growing  Growth should be uncomfortable. It should push you.  Comfort doesn’t grow us.  Embrace the discomfort. 

Decisions

Delayed decisions can be as bad as no decisions.  Sometimes it’s better to make a decision and adjust if needed.  Be decisive, but be flexible. Me decisive but be adaptable. 

Learn How You Learn

Everyone learns in different ways. If you can really figure out how you learn, you'll save yourself a lot of times. Some learn via audio, some via text. Some learn best with video. Some needs hands on. If you can learn how you learn best, you'll be a more efficient learner,

Through It

The best way is through it. Not around it.  We don’t need to look for troubles or difficulties, but the best way to deal with them is to meet them head on. Avoidance only makes them more difficult. Face them and deal with them quickly.  That’s the best way, through it. 

Being Kind

Being kind should become a habit.  It should be the default.  There’s very few times where being unkind is appropriate. 

Efficiency

Being efficient should be a continuous goal. There's almost always room to be more efficient. In giving and loving people, be liberal. But in your other outputs, trying to find efficiencies. It will leave you with more to give to others.

Quality

If your McDonald’s, quantity matters.  But if you want something better, quality is what matters.  Focusing on quality over quantity is the way to go.  Quality brings value. Quality brings cheapness. 

Life and Death

Is in the power of the tongue.  We can speak life. Our words are ever so important.  Our actions are most important but sometimes it’s our words that make a difference in a situation.