My Riffs

It’s Valentines and the day we designate for love.  If you haven’t been showing love prior to today though, today’s showing of love will be shallow. If it’s an outflow of true love it will make its mark. 

You have to take good care of yourself.  If you don’t, you won’t be able to take care of others.  So keep yourself healthy and strong, so you can be what other people need when they’re not healthy and strong. 

Getting ahead and getting out in front of something gives you a huge advantage.  Getting started is more important than making the perfect plan. Get started and adjust. Waiting for the perfect plan may set you too far behind to catch up. 

If you really want to learn, teach.  Teaching means you have to truly know. You can’t teach what you don’t know. 

It’s a noisy, noisy world. There’s very little place for quiet. There’s little place for solitude and contemplation. We don’t look inward. We look outside for validation and get it in echo chambers. We seek out those who agree with us and feed our egos. Discomfort is something we avoid at all costs. Silence is uncomfortable. But in the uncomfortable is where the gold is. The rest only holds fools gold.  Slow down and think. Slow down and dig deep.  Check your assumptions.  Be open to changing your mind.  Do the hard work.  That’s where the real important stuff happens. 

One lesson I’ve learned as a parent is kids will learns far more from my actions and behaviour than what I say.  What matters most is the example I’m setting. My words matter, but what’s being caught is what my behaviour says.