The most convincing people never make you feel dumb. Think about that. You’ll be most effective making people feel good and leading them to better. Shaming doesn’t produce healthy results.
We love to complain. In many ways, there’s never been a time in history where people had it easier. Yet we complain to much. It could be worse, much worse. Probably isn’t much of a reason to actually be complaining.
Give thanks for every good thing. Give thanks for all the bad things that you've avoided. Someone always has it worse off than you. Give thanks for that.
Make space. We don’t have to push out every person who has a different perspective. Make space for them. You won’t convert someone to a better idea without making space for them to feel safe enough to change their mind.