My Riffs

Part of maturing is taking ownership. Owning whatever is within your control. Blame gives away our control. We can blame other people, we can blame the past, we can blame circumstances, the government or the weather. But that gives away our power. So take ownership and you take back control of the situation. It doesn't mean the situation will go how you like or want, but you will have a part in it. You can shape it to some degree. At the least you can shape your attitude and approach to it.

So often I find myself thinking and preparing for the next thing. It takes me away from the moment and the moments.  While it's good to keep our eyes on things ahead and the goals, it's easy to not be present.  For me, it takes conscious effort to be present in every moment, and both give and absorb what opportunity that moment holds. It takes slowing down and being conscious. It takes quieting all the noise. It takes focus and discipline, but what do we have besides time? So remembering to be present is the way to use that time wisely and efficently.

It’s the ego that so often holds us back. Sometimes we think it’s fear, and maybe in part it is. But often it’s ego.  Scared to look bad. Scared of what people will think if we change our mind or if we make a mistake. It’s more about our ego being damaged than actual damage.  If the ego can be kept in check, internal limits can be erased. Often it’s ego holding us back.

Want to live a blessed life? Be a peace maker. 

Things are moving too fast. It’s nearly impossible to find quality. And when you do, it stands out.  AI slop. Disposable fashion. Cheaply made products.  When you come across something quality and timeless, it stands out.  The world is moving too fast.  Slow down and do quality things. You’ll stand out and possibly enjoy things more. 

Your work matters. No matter the job or task.   It’s either helping someone or yourself, or teaching you something.