Outcomes Can Differ
Two individuals can go through the same thing, but the outcome is different. This is both normal and okay.
Somehow we expect those who have been through the same or similar events as ourselves to come out with the same opinions or views.
But views will vary by individual.
We cannot always expect everyone to see things our way. In fact, a lot of the time, people won't.
Allowing variety of opinions and views allows for balance. Being close minded to the variety hurts everyone.
Your experience may not be someone else's, and neither should you expect it to be. It's so difficult, but it helps to try and not judge the world from only our perspective. We often fail to realize that someone else may feel completely different about things than us, and they're not wrong.
Somehow we expect those who have been through the same or similar events as ourselves to come out with the same opinions or views.
But views will vary by individual.
We cannot always expect everyone to see things our way. In fact, a lot of the time, people won't.
Allowing variety of opinions and views allows for balance. Being close minded to the variety hurts everyone.
Your experience may not be someone else's, and neither should you expect it to be. It's so difficult, but it helps to try and not judge the world from only our perspective. We often fail to realize that someone else may feel completely different about things than us, and they're not wrong.
My feeling is as long as everyone is speaking their truth; then you can take it too their bank anyways........
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