Making Them Pay

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When you have been done wrong (and we all have been and will be) do you make them pay?

The tendency is to make them pay for doing us wrong. But does extracting "payment" even the score?

It's safe to say that is doesn't. It makes both parties lose.

If we can resist the urge to make them pay, we can turn a negative into a positive. Making them pay increases the negative.

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