Dealing In "What Ifs"
Disappointments usually lead to "what if" questions. It's natural.
But dealing in "what if" questions of the past is an exercise in madness. You will drive yourself crazy if you deal in them for long. You will never have concrete answers to "what if" questions of the past.
The good news is, you can ask "what if" questions about the future, even coming from disappointment.
And those are productive questions. The "what if" questions concerning the future can be answered and they can change things.
When those questions come, make sure to navigate them forward, not in reverse.
But dealing in "what if" questions of the past is an exercise in madness. You will drive yourself crazy if you deal in them for long. You will never have concrete answers to "what if" questions of the past.
The good news is, you can ask "what if" questions about the future, even coming from disappointment.
And those are productive questions. The "what if" questions concerning the future can be answered and they can change things.
When those questions come, make sure to navigate them forward, not in reverse.
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