Why and How

When things don't go as we wish, we are often stuck asking ourself "why did this happen?".
And that's a very important question to ask. There's often a lot to learn from mistakes or situations that have occurred.

But we/me can often get stuck on that question.

The better question is "how do I make the best of this situation?".

Because looking back is only so helpful. But looking forward can be very helpful.