Vacuum Cleaner or Gold Panner

Some people are like a vacuum cleaner. They seem to exist to find and intake all the dirt they can. They thrive on gossip and finding out peoples mistakes and failures. But others are like gold panners, they sift out all the dirt and try to find the gold. Finding dirt is easy and is about the easiest lowest form of social interaction. But finding gold takes someone who doesn't want to live in the base human form. Finding the gold takes a higher level of awareness and understanding of how the world and people work. Pan for gold, leave the vacuuming to people who want to be filled with dirt.