The Art of Navigation

Pilots and captains have the luxury of maps and training. That's why we generally feel comfortable taking flights and trips in ocean vessels.

Navigating life unfortunately comes with very little advance training and preparation. A lot of life is learning on the job.

The challenge is navigating life in a manner, with little training, that minimizes mistakes and repercussions. Fortunately this isn't a hopeless task. Somebody has faced what you're facing. Somebody has failed at what you're facing. Somebody has succeeded in what you're facing.

Find those people. Find the historical examples.

Speak to experienced people who can listen as much as they can talk.

Speak to close friends and family.

Read and think.

When it comes to circumstances in life that have far reaching and serious consequences, slow down, speak, search and be patient. In difficult circumstances our instincts are often wrong.

To get out and above the circumstances, reach above yourself. You will find a handle somewhere above yourself. Hold onto that until the circumstance passes.

Parenting is challenging and there's no manual.
Adulting is challenging and there's no manual.

But there is help and wisdom when we've found ourselves navigating beyond our experience and knowledge.

The art of navigation requires self awareness, honesty and humility.

The big takeaway, don't navigate alone.

Rely on the knowledge and wisdom of history through other people who have been there.