Change We Want
Most of the changes we want is changes to external things, and often things we have little to no control over.
We rarely want to change ourselves. Because that's the hardest change to make. It is a lot easier to wish for people and situations to change. It is a whole lot harder looking inside and making substantial changes to adjust to people and situations.
But these are the rewarding changes. Because they make us a better person. A changed situation or a changed person we know rarely makes us a better person.
If only we could accept that often the changes that need to be made are ones we need to make within ourselves. Such a difficult lesson to learn and re-learn and keep re-learning.
We rarely want to change ourselves. Because that's the hardest change to make. It is a lot easier to wish for people and situations to change. It is a whole lot harder looking inside and making substantial changes to adjust to people and situations.
But these are the rewarding changes. Because they make us a better person. A changed situation or a changed person we know rarely makes us a better person.
If only we could accept that often the changes that need to be made are ones we need to make within ourselves. Such a difficult lesson to learn and re-learn and keep re-learning.
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