The Gouge In the Armour

Some people delight themselves in finding the gouge in someone else's armour. I've had to confront that tendency in myself. And it's a horrible way to live and experience life.

There's little skill in pointing out a gouge. There's much skill in pointing out a fix for the gouge. There's also much skill in pointing out untapped talents. 

If you find a gouge, try and find all the areas where their armour is strong. There may be a gouge because they've been through battles.