Forcing Things
Forcing things doesn't seem to work as well. Letting things happen as they should often does a better job. This isn't applicable across everything. This doesn't mean sitting back and letting life just come to you. It means forcing other people and situations. For example, my son is just over a year old and he's just starting to walk. But it was because I started forcing him too. He's doing well, but maybe he wasn't quite ready for it. He's still learning, but maybe slower than had he naturally started.
How many other times do we do this in life. Forcing a situation or a reaction from someone? When letting it play out would have been better.
Situations in our control we should take control of. Situations that aren't in our control, we make a mess trying to exert control over.
Did I do the wrong thing for me son? I don't think so, I was getting tired of carrying him lol :)
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