Negative Blinding

By -
Something/someone could have 9 positive aspects and 1 negative aspect and what aspect will be focused and discussed more? Probably the one negative. It seems if there is any negative to grasp onto, we will.

We will overlook so much positive to focus and grasp onto the negative. 

Negativism doesn't need to be fed. It seems to grow without any assistance. 

Feed positivity and choke the life out of negativity. 

Focusing on negative not only wastes time, it is counter reproductive. 

The point here is not to be okay with broken/negative things, but to not expend energy and time on ones that cannot be fixed or are truly not a big deal.

Positivity requires more effort, but produces way higher dividends.

Comments

  1. VRLMarch 15, 2016 at 9:40 AM

    Whoa, creepy. I was just thinking of this the other day. My exact thought was, "Why, in the midst of everything so good, I can find something so negative and dwell on it."

    Thank you for the reminder.

    ReplyDelete
  2. UnknownMarch 16, 2016 at 11:40 AM

    I so very much wish I could get this handled in life.

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Popular Posts

The Good

By -
Point out the good, and just watch, it will grow. If you keep harping on the faults, the good may never grow as it should. But if you keep watering and cultivating the good, it’s going to flourish. 
Read more

Doors

By -
In life there will be many doors or opportunities present themselves. We have to learn wisdom to know which ones to go through. Not every opportunity is something we should take advantage of. Some opportunities are distractions. It's okay to say no. 
Read more

It’s A Mix

By -
You can’t get all good. You have to take some bad to get good. You have to take some pain to get some joy. Strength comes through weakness. It’s can’t be just one, it’s a mixture. One thing bring another. 
Read more