Circles

Circles are an interesting shape.

Depending on the size, they can be a sign of inclusion or exclusion.

I find I often draw small circles. Excluding people I do not agree with on every-thing. I draw a circle and exclude people I cannot easily identify with. I draw small circles and exclude people I have a lot in common with, but differ slightly in some areas. I draw small circles and exlude those who irritate me or take too much of my time.

I draw small circles and rob myself of friendships and influence; of learning and growth experiences.

I have been taking it upon myself to draw larger circles and see who I can take in rather than cut out.

Influencing those outside your circle is tough. Better to bring those you want to influence into your circle.

Abraham Lincoln understood this. Following his election, he placed his rivals for the election in positions of power (his cabinet). He knew he could accomplish more by bringing in those who he had disagreements with and working with them. Rather than fighting them outside his circle.

I am convinced that drawing larger circles has a linear relationship with happiness. The larger the circle, the more joy and happiness you will find. The smaller the circle, the less joy and happiness you will find.